I received a call two weeks after The Narc passed away. Until that point, I did not know. No idea. No call from a former neighbor. No email from our synagogue where we were members for twenty years and she had been working part time. No text from either of my two sons. The Narc […]
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If you have been abused by a narcissist you understand what it means to be afraid of your own happiness. That may sound peculiar or odd, I totally get it. Why would anyone be worried about smiling, laughing, getting excited, or feeling alive? The answer to that will take some explaining but it is the
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What do you think is the most important thing a narcissist steals from you? Admittedly, that is a heck of a question. However, it is a big question that needs to be asked. It can only help your healing if you can drill down to the core of the problem. How are you meant to heal
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According to merriam-webster.com the meaning of entitlement is: a: the state or condition of being entitled: right b: a right to benefits specified especially by law or contract c: belief that one is deserving of or entitled to certain privileges Narcissists believe that they are entitled to anything they want, period. Wanting six people to
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It took FOREVER to finally leave The Narc, only to realize that once I made that fateful decision, my name became mud. She was not going to let me go without a fight. I was going to be villainized like I never experienced before the breakup. All my friends and family heard how crazy, unbalanced, manipulative,
The Narc took it all, especially My Sons. She didn’t? Here Comes the Smear Campaign. Read More »
According to the Mayo Clinic narcissistic personality disorder is defined as “a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism.” The Diagnostic and Statistical
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When we discover essential truths about narcissists and realize the narcissist is not capable of genuine love, it’s gut-wrenching. The intense salt in the wound is the understanding that he or she doesn’t love us now, and never did. We may experience this in many different forms. Maybe this person who once vowed and declared
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I have no answer to this, so we go a little long today. But I think if you stay with me, maybe we can find out together. If you have recently ended a toxic relationship with someone with the traits of a narcissist, you’re likely dealing with plenty of hurt and confusion. Even when you know,
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Life is not supposed to be this hard! It’s not. It’s just not supposed to be this hard. I mean, on paper it all seems so easy. I have watched other people succeed at it. They are good at being kids. Good at school. Good grades. They know how to talk to other kids. High
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“She said you don’t understand what I saidI said no no no, you’re wrong, when I was a boyEverything was rightEverything was right I saidEven though you know what you knowI know that I’m ready to leave‘Cause you’re making me feel like I’ve never been born She said you don’t understand what I saidI said
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